Re: Bad 1" Copper tee.
Not quite getting what you're saying about the T. Is it the type of T with the flux/solder already built in? If not and you finally got it to take solder and it is not leaking, how is it bad? Do you believe it to be out of specifications? Softener guys suck with their Qest fittings. Seems like they would at least give them a pair of pex crimpers. Nothing like four or more Qest fittings in a nice copper/pex water system. Definitely the weakest link.
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