I am starting realize that. I am still figuring out this being married thing it's only been a little over four years.
You're still in the honeymoon stage. Here's some free advice or observations that might help and God knows every marriage can use help. Men and women do think differently and when trying to make your case or point on a given subject chances are you will be using "reason" whereas most women (I know I'm generalizing) operate on emotion. You can't use reason against emotion! Women don't forget a thing. Drop a tree on the house or run over their Mom and years later they will still remember!